Healthy Love Relationships
Title: Finding And Keeping LOVE - Preventing Extramarital Affairs (Continued)
By: Georgette Pauls
5. Shopping for stuff that you don’t really need, can’t store, and can’t pay for without dipping into credit cards and your future financial health. 6. Your car in which you spend hours a day commuting and/or hauling kids to every activity known to compulsive parents.
7. Your home, which is a brand new McMansion an hour or more commute from your work.
On the other hand, think of all the bedrooms you can use
Go back and look at the list again. All of these things involve choices we can make to allow ourselves time to have relationships that are better and more rewarding. And it’s not just romantic choices. It can be all our relationships.
But…it’s all your choice. So…
Make better choices. You know, the old saying, “Think outside the box”? Well, do it!
Good loving IS worth it!
Good relationships take time and attention.
1. Work at home. If you are available, just at hand (so to speak), it’s good for your relationship.
2. Commute shorter distances. Why are you riding in the car when you could be making love?
3. Spend less time at work. A career is a way to make a living. As an old boss of ours used to say, “On payday, we’re even.” Work is NOT a life.
4. Spend less time with coworkers and more time with your lover. Is the first person you can reach your lover or a coworker you don’t love but will take in a pinch? See what we’re getting at? Infidelity MAY happen just because it’s all that’s available.
5. Manage your finances so that you have financial power over your own life and business. If you aren’t tied to an awful job by necessity, it’s good for you and everyone you love.
6. Buy medical insurance that is not tied to your job. Same reason as above.
7. Make sure your lifestyle choices don’t take over your life and force you to sacrifice your relationships to the financial pressures of keeping up with the Jones. Stuff is never an acceptable replacement for love.
It’s a personal decision whether or not you make love a priority over other things that demand your time. Choosing a short commute to work over a long one could mean you have more time for love. Make the choices that will mean you get and give more loving.
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Georgette Pauls knows what it takes to have a successful relationship. Unlike many “gurus” with multiple failed relationships, Georgette has had a happy romantic relationship for over 25 years. You can find more of her insights into relationships and preventing infidelity at
http://www.stop-their-infidelity.com
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